It is always a good or perhaps the best idea until it meets opposition in your circle and it is at that time a dead idea is born.
See on your own, you are so far doing fine, and here in your head this real at least so-called 'good idea' comes to life.
It is a natural instinct to seek validation except that it is unconscious sometimes, so we involve those who are close to us, what do you think?
Not the case at all times, but I assure you the negative voices appear to be the loudest. They are unconsciously killing your idea but it is not the intent.